Category: People

  • 911 Memorial for Wilton Victims

    911 Memorial for Wilton Victims

    On Thursday morning at 9am, a group of Knights of Columbus gathered at the Our Lady of Fatima 911 memorial to memorialize all the victims of the tragedy on September 11th 2001 but, in particular, the 5 members of our Wilton Community who were also parishioners of Our Lady of Fatima.

    It is now 24 years since that tragic day – to help keep their memories fresh in everyone’s memory, we have gathered some past write ups below and also added this prayer.

    We pause to remember the great losses and courageous acts of September 11th. We lift up those who are still affected — families of the victims, police officers, firemen, first responders, and all who were involved. We pray for the light of Christ to flood the hearts of people everywhere. We believe You desire to redeem Your creation, and we trust that beauty will continue to come from the ashes of those dark days. Surround us with Your mighty angels of protection, give us compassion for one another in all of life’s circumstances, and instill in us the courage to answer Your call. Amen.

    Edward Fergus

    Edward T. Fergus Jr. was born on May 11, 1961 to Dorothy and Edward Fergus in Queens, NY, He had three sisters, Maureen, Annemarie, and Alison. He lived in Wilton, CT. Edward met his sweetheart, Linda Fergus, in 1979, when they were attending the same college, St. Michael’s in Winooski, VT. They fell in love, got married, and had two children together, Shannon, age 11, and Tom, age 10 (at the time of Edward’s passing). Edward loved spending time with his family, and he especially enjoyed taking the children fishing on Long Island Sound and having boat picnics with Linda and the children. He loved the mountains and always went skiing and snowboarding in the winter, usually in Vermont. Edward remained close with his sisters, and took them and their children to the annual Oyster Festival in South Norwalk, CT, every year. He would also organize annual seaside vacations for their families. Edward participated in volunteer work in his spare time, and attended church weekly. He was described by his friends and family as fun-loving, generous, hard-working, and energetic. Edward worked as a partner for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 104th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. He was very dedicated to his job and was well-liked by his co-workers and colleagues. On the morning of September 11, 2001, Edward was working at his office when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving all of Cantor Fitzgerald’s floors above its impassable impact zone. Sadly, none of Cantor’s attending employees survived, including Edward. His life was unfairly cut short on September 11th, but Edward’s energetic spirit and shining legacy live on forever. His life, love, accomplishments, and memories will never be forgotten.

    Peter Fry

    Peter Christian Fry was on the 84th floor of the World Trade Center tower hit by the second plane on Sept. 11. His father, Charles Fry, was at his home in Kingwood at the time. Charles retired to the Kingwood community while his son and his family remained in Connecticut. When a friend called from California to alert Charles to the attack, he instantly knew that his son was in one of those towers. “He was always on time,” said Charles, knowing how responsible Peter had always been to his commitments. Fry was a vice president at Institutional Money Markets at Euro Brokers Incorporated, a global securities firm located a Two World Trade Center. There were 210 people on the 84th floor before the attack, 60 of them didn’t make it out, including Peter. “Knowing Peter, he would have been trying to help somebody,” said Charles easily visualizing his son helping get everyone to the tower exits. A memorial service was held for Peter on Sept. 29 in Wilton, Connecticut. Attendees of the ceremony received a program that had a unique picture of Peter on the front of it. He is fly fishing in his wedding tuxedo in the picture. The back of the program had the words to the Grateful Dead’s song “Box of Rain.” Peter was an avid athlete, having played lacrosse in both college (he was an All-American lacrosse player at Curry College in Massachusetts) and in the Fairfield County Lacrosse League. Peter was 36.

    John Iskyan

    John F. Iskyan was born on April 11, 1960 to Carol and John Iskyan in Manhasset, NY. He lived in Wilton, CT. John attended and graduated from Saint Michael’s College in 1982. He met his sweetheart, Margaret Iskyan, during the first week of Margaret’s freshman year at Saint Michael’s College. They started dating on Valentine’s Day of 1980 and were married in early September of 1985. They had two children together, Peter, age 12, and Carolyn, age 10 (at the time of John’s passing). John cared a lot about his family, and they were the most important thing in his life to him. In his free time, John loved spending time outdoors, hiking, camping, boating, and especially skiing. He also enjoyed golfing, vacations, and attending New York Giants games. John was described by his friends and family as loyal, dedicated, devoted, and helpful. John worked as a first vice president in liquidity products for Cantor Fitzgerald on the upper floors of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. He joined Cantor in 1982, two weeks after he graduated college. On the morning of September 11, 2001, John was working at Cantor Fitzgerald when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving all of Cantor’s floors above the impassable impact zone. Sadly, none of the firm’s attending employees survived the attack, including John. Though his life was unfairly taken, John’s loving spirit lives on forever in the hearts and memories of his loved ones and through all who continue to remember him. He will never be forgotten.

    Edward York

    Ed York worked for many years at several firms including MA Hanna and Daymond and Associates before moving on to Cantor Fitzgerald, where he was the Vice President and Director of Human Resources. Stories and admiration abound for Ed, things like “he always brought a smile to everyone’s face” and ‘he had an unconventional way of bringing people together” and “his family was the center of this universe”.

    John Henwood

    John Christopher Henwood was born on February 15, 1966 to Mary and David Henwood. He had three sisters, Mary, Catherine, and Tara, and a brother, David. He grew up in Wilton, CT, and lived in Manhattan, NY, in adulthood. John attended and graduated from Wilton High School and Northeastern University. In college, he was president of his school’s chapter of the Phi Gamma Pi fraternity. John met his sweetheart, Concha Munoz, in Spain while he was visiting Madrid working for I.B.M. John and Concha fell in love, were married on September 10, 1992, and had two children together, Alejandro, age 5, and Claudia, age 2 (at the time of John’s passing). John loved visiting Spain and planned to soon move his family there. John’s good friend, David Keefe, remembered, “Every year they’d go to Spain for four weeks, and those were probably the best days of John’s life. I think the most important thing I could say about John is that he was the guy you looked forward to being with. When we were in Boston and right out of college, working three or four different jobs, no matter how tedious something might be, if John was there, it was fun.” John was also described by his friends and family as loyal, playful, gentle, and easygoing. On September 10th, John had celebrated his ninth wedding anniversary. The next morning, he got ready for another day of work at the World Trade Center. John worked as a bond trader for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 105th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. On the morning of September 11, 2001, John was working on the 105th floor when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving his floor and all of Cantor’s offices above the impassable impact zone. None of the firm’s attending employees survived the attack, including John. Though his life was unfairly taken on September 11th, John’s vibrant spirit lives on forever in love, memory, and legacy. He will never be forgotten


  • Special Needs Planning

    Special Needs Planning

    Come join the Knights of Columbus and LaMagna McKenna Attorney’s at law to learn how careful planning and good legal counsel can help protect your family today and for the future. Because of the Knights of Columbus unique Mission and Vision set forth at its founding in 1882 by Fr. McGivney, we are in a position to help Catholic Families who have loved ones with Special Needs to ensure a quality of life for their children rather than just life-time care. And, yes, there is a difference. Come and see!

    Topics to be covered include:

    • Wills and Documents “language matters”
    • Guardianship – who, when & why
    • Trusts & ABLE accounts
    • Guard.Grow.Give with KofC Insurance & KocAA
    • Planning for your loved ones at all ages and stages of life


  • R.I.P. Mark Durma

    R.I.P. Mark Durma

    Unfortunately, some very sad news to share today. One of our brother Knights, Mark Durma, passed away on Wednesday, July 30, 2025. Services are in the care of Collins Funeral Home in Norwalk. The link to his obituary is https://www.collinsfh.com/obituary/mark-durma.

    Visitations at Collins Funeral Home at 92 East Ave, Norwalk are on:
    – Tuesday August 5th from 5 to 7pm
    – Wednesday August 6th from 9 to 10am

    Funeral Service: Wednesday August 6th 10:30am at Our Lady of Fatima, 229 Danbury Road, Wilton.

    Graveside Service: Wednesday August 6th at 165 Ridgefield Road, Wilton, CT.

    By his death, our Council has sustained the loss of an exemplary Catholic gentleman and worthy Knight of Columbus; May he rest in peace.

    HIs obituary can be found here.


  • Meet our 2025-26 Officers

    Meet our 2025-26 Officers


  • Easter Weekend Activities

    Easter Weekend Activities

    Firstly, I hope you all had a very happy easter and that the resurrection of Christ brought you and your family peace and joy as you rejoiced in the miracle of Easter, surrounded by the love of family, the warmth of friendship, and the blessings of faith.

    I also want to thank all the Knights and our sister Columbiettes who volunteered and participated in the Easter Activities over the weekend. What a fantastic effort to get everything just right, from the cleaning of the Church, the beautiful flowers that were added by the Columbiettes, the washing of the feet, the preparations for the Easter Egg Hunt, the joy on the children’s faces, and the beautiful Easter Vigil Service by Fr. Pawel. I hope you all had a great Easter!


  • Congrats to Peter Rubsam

    Congrats to Peter Rubsam

    Congratulations to Peter Rubsam, one of own from Council 12698, on becoming the latest Sir Knight of the 4th Degree of The Knights of Columbus. Peter was privileged to attend the ceremony at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in NYC marking the 125th anniversary of the first exemplification on February 22nd 1900. Peter was part of a class of over 700; the first exemplification had over 1,100 candidates. The entire ceremonial was overseen by His Eminence Timothy Cardinal Dolan and Supreme Chaplain, His Excellency Archbishop William Lori. They also celebrated a Mass and attended a banquet afterwards.

    The next exemplification in CT is on Sunday, April 6, at the birthplace of our order, St. Mary’s in New Haven. If you wish to be a part of the Patriotic arm of our order, please let us know soon. You’ll have to complete a Form 4 application, email it to Council 12698 for verification at WiltonKnightsOfColumbus@gmail.com before it is sent to Bishop Fenwick Assembly 100. I encourage all of our 3rd Degree Knights to become members of the 4th Degree.

    Congratulations again to Peter in his fantastic accomplishment, and thanks to his wife Jeannie and all the others who were there with him to celebrate.


  • Farewell Party for Fr. Reggie

    Farewell Party for Fr. Reggie

    Please join us at Our Lady of Fatima Parish Center in Wilton CT on Sunday, January 26th just after the 11am mass (approx 12pm) until 3pm for a farewell party for our Pastor Fr. Reggie Norman. After 12 years being the Pastor at Our Lady of Fatima, Fr. Reggie will be moving to St. Mark’s of Stratford.

    Join everyone in thanking him for 12 great years as we make sure he leaves in good spirits for his next challenge.

    See you all there!


  • Successful Fr. Reggie Move

    Successful Fr. Reggie Move

    On January 25th, at 11am, about 30 Volunteers turned up to help Fr. Reggie move to his new St. Mark’s Parish in Stratford.

    Fr. Reggie has been Pastor of Our Lady of Fatima for the past 12 years and has been a big supporter of the Wilton Knights of Columbus, and is also the Faithful Navigator for Bishop Fenwick Assembly 100 based in Norwalk CT.

    Everyone got stuck in and helped load the truck which was generously provided by Richie Cunningham. Loading and unloading took over 3 hours and everyone returned to Our Lady of Fatima for some refreshments and pizza, a well earned meal!

    Thanks to everyone who turned up and we wish Fr. Reggie success in his new Parish!


  • Welcome Fr. Paul Hrebenko

    Welcome Fr. Paul Hrebenko

    Welcome to our new Pastor, Fr. Paul M Hrebenko, who was born in Lubin, Poland. Fr. Paul is the youngest of six children. His home parish is Sacred Heart Church in Lubin, where he attended the Parish’s religious education program as a child. He also attended the Salesian Oratory where his desire to become a priest was nurtured by the Salesian Fathers and Sisters.

    Following graduation from High School, he completed his philosophy in the Salesian Major Seminary in Lodz, before making the decision to serve the Church in the United States. He studied English as a second language at St. John Fisher Seminary in Stamford in 1999. Fr. Hrebenko was later assigned to the Archdiocesan St. Joseph Seminary in Yonkers, NY where he completed his studies in STB (from St. Thomas Aquinas University in Rome) and Master of Divinity in theology. Following his graduation, he was ordained to the priesthood in 2004 by Bishop William E. Lori.

    Before coming to Our Lady of Fatima, Fr. Paul served St. Ann Parish in Bridgeport, St. Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish in Brookfield, St. Rose of Lima Parish in Newtown, and St. John Fisher Seminary as a Spiritual Director to our Diocesan seminarians. In 2012, he was appointed first an Administrator and later Pastor of Holy Name of Jesus Parish in Stamford. During his time at Holy Name, Fr. Paul studied liturgy at The Pontifical University of John Paul II in Cracow, Poland. Over the years, Fr. Paul served on the Diocesan Priest Personnel Board, Vocations Advisory Board, faculty of Permanent Diaconate Program, and currently as Episcopal Vicar for the Polish Community.