Category: Religious Events

  • Christmas Tree Lighting!

    Christmas Tree Lighting!

    Mark your calendars! The traditional Our Lady of Fatima Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony will be held on December 6th after the 4:30pm mass. This traditionally is a very festive event led by the Knights and Columbiettes with a very tasty free dinner provided in the Parish Center after the tree lighting. Everyone is asked to bring their own beverages (BYOB) and registration is not required. Volunteers will be needed to set up in advance – please email wiltonknightsofcolumbus@gmail.com.

    Come join us to truly kick off the Christmas Season!


  • 911 Memorial for Wilton Victims

    911 Memorial for Wilton Victims

    On Thursday morning at 9am, a group of Knights of Columbus gathered at the Our Lady of Fatima 911 memorial to memorialize all the victims of the tragedy on September 11th 2001 but, in particular, the 5 members of our Wilton Community who were also parishioners of Our Lady of Fatima.

    It is now 24 years since that tragic day – to help keep their memories fresh in everyone’s memory, we have gathered some past write ups below and also added this prayer.

    We pause to remember the great losses and courageous acts of September 11th. We lift up those who are still affected — families of the victims, police officers, firemen, first responders, and all who were involved. We pray for the light of Christ to flood the hearts of people everywhere. We believe You desire to redeem Your creation, and we trust that beauty will continue to come from the ashes of those dark days. Surround us with Your mighty angels of protection, give us compassion for one another in all of life’s circumstances, and instill in us the courage to answer Your call. Amen.

    Edward Fergus

    Edward T. Fergus Jr. was born on May 11, 1961 to Dorothy and Edward Fergus in Queens, NY, He had three sisters, Maureen, Annemarie, and Alison. He lived in Wilton, CT. Edward met his sweetheart, Linda Fergus, in 1979, when they were attending the same college, St. Michael’s in Winooski, VT. They fell in love, got married, and had two children together, Shannon, age 11, and Tom, age 10 (at the time of Edward’s passing). Edward loved spending time with his family, and he especially enjoyed taking the children fishing on Long Island Sound and having boat picnics with Linda and the children. He loved the mountains and always went skiing and snowboarding in the winter, usually in Vermont. Edward remained close with his sisters, and took them and their children to the annual Oyster Festival in South Norwalk, CT, every year. He would also organize annual seaside vacations for their families. Edward participated in volunteer work in his spare time, and attended church weekly. He was described by his friends and family as fun-loving, generous, hard-working, and energetic. Edward worked as a partner for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 104th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. He was very dedicated to his job and was well-liked by his co-workers and colleagues. On the morning of September 11, 2001, Edward was working at his office when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving all of Cantor Fitzgerald’s floors above its impassable impact zone. Sadly, none of Cantor’s attending employees survived, including Edward. His life was unfairly cut short on September 11th, but Edward’s energetic spirit and shining legacy live on forever. His life, love, accomplishments, and memories will never be forgotten.

    Peter Fry

    Peter Christian Fry was on the 84th floor of the World Trade Center tower hit by the second plane on Sept. 11. His father, Charles Fry, was at his home in Kingwood at the time. Charles retired to the Kingwood community while his son and his family remained in Connecticut. When a friend called from California to alert Charles to the attack, he instantly knew that his son was in one of those towers. “He was always on time,” said Charles, knowing how responsible Peter had always been to his commitments. Fry was a vice president at Institutional Money Markets at Euro Brokers Incorporated, a global securities firm located a Two World Trade Center. There were 210 people on the 84th floor before the attack, 60 of them didn’t make it out, including Peter. “Knowing Peter, he would have been trying to help somebody,” said Charles easily visualizing his son helping get everyone to the tower exits. A memorial service was held for Peter on Sept. 29 in Wilton, Connecticut. Attendees of the ceremony received a program that had a unique picture of Peter on the front of it. He is fly fishing in his wedding tuxedo in the picture. The back of the program had the words to the Grateful Dead’s song “Box of Rain.” Peter was an avid athlete, having played lacrosse in both college (he was an All-American lacrosse player at Curry College in Massachusetts) and in the Fairfield County Lacrosse League. Peter was 36.

    John Iskyan

    John F. Iskyan was born on April 11, 1960 to Carol and John Iskyan in Manhasset, NY. He lived in Wilton, CT. John attended and graduated from Saint Michael’s College in 1982. He met his sweetheart, Margaret Iskyan, during the first week of Margaret’s freshman year at Saint Michael’s College. They started dating on Valentine’s Day of 1980 and were married in early September of 1985. They had two children together, Peter, age 12, and Carolyn, age 10 (at the time of John’s passing). John cared a lot about his family, and they were the most important thing in his life to him. In his free time, John loved spending time outdoors, hiking, camping, boating, and especially skiing. He also enjoyed golfing, vacations, and attending New York Giants games. John was described by his friends and family as loyal, dedicated, devoted, and helpful. John worked as a first vice president in liquidity products for Cantor Fitzgerald on the upper floors of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. He joined Cantor in 1982, two weeks after he graduated college. On the morning of September 11, 2001, John was working at Cantor Fitzgerald when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving all of Cantor’s floors above the impassable impact zone. Sadly, none of the firm’s attending employees survived the attack, including John. Though his life was unfairly taken, John’s loving spirit lives on forever in the hearts and memories of his loved ones and through all who continue to remember him. He will never be forgotten.

    Edward York

    Ed York worked for many years at several firms including MA Hanna and Daymond and Associates before moving on to Cantor Fitzgerald, where he was the Vice President and Director of Human Resources. Stories and admiration abound for Ed, things like “he always brought a smile to everyone’s face” and ‘he had an unconventional way of bringing people together” and “his family was the center of this universe”.

    John Henwood

    John Christopher Henwood was born on February 15, 1966 to Mary and David Henwood. He had three sisters, Mary, Catherine, and Tara, and a brother, David. He grew up in Wilton, CT, and lived in Manhattan, NY, in adulthood. John attended and graduated from Wilton High School and Northeastern University. In college, he was president of his school’s chapter of the Phi Gamma Pi fraternity. John met his sweetheart, Concha Munoz, in Spain while he was visiting Madrid working for I.B.M. John and Concha fell in love, were married on September 10, 1992, and had two children together, Alejandro, age 5, and Claudia, age 2 (at the time of John’s passing). John loved visiting Spain and planned to soon move his family there. John’s good friend, David Keefe, remembered, “Every year they’d go to Spain for four weeks, and those were probably the best days of John’s life. I think the most important thing I could say about John is that he was the guy you looked forward to being with. When we were in Boston and right out of college, working three or four different jobs, no matter how tedious something might be, if John was there, it was fun.” John was also described by his friends and family as loyal, playful, gentle, and easygoing. On September 10th, John had celebrated his ninth wedding anniversary. The next morning, he got ready for another day of work at the World Trade Center. John worked as a bond trader for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 105th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower. On the morning of September 11, 2001, John was working on the 105th floor when Flight 11 struck the North Tower, leaving his floor and all of Cantor’s offices above the impassable impact zone. None of the firm’s attending employees survived the attack, including John. Though his life was unfairly taken on September 11th, John’s vibrant spirit lives on forever in love, memory, and legacy. He will never be forgotten


  • R.I.P. Mark Durma

    R.I.P. Mark Durma

    Unfortunately, some very sad news to share today. One of our brother Knights, Mark Durma, passed away on Wednesday, July 30, 2025. Services are in the care of Collins Funeral Home in Norwalk. The link to his obituary is https://www.collinsfh.com/obituary/mark-durma.

    Visitations at Collins Funeral Home at 92 East Ave, Norwalk are on:
    – Tuesday August 5th from 5 to 7pm
    – Wednesday August 6th from 9 to 10am

    Funeral Service: Wednesday August 6th 10:30am at Our Lady of Fatima, 229 Danbury Road, Wilton.

    Graveside Service: Wednesday August 6th at 165 Ridgefield Road, Wilton, CT.

    By his death, our Council has sustained the loss of an exemplary Catholic gentleman and worthy Knight of Columbus; May he rest in peace.

    HIs obituary can be found here.


  • David Flynn joins the 4th Degree Knights of Columbus

    David Flynn joins the 4th Degree Knights of Columbus

    Congratulations to Dave Flynn on becoming a 4th Degree Knight of Columbus at the Fourth Degree Exemplification held on July 19th at St. Andrew’s Church in Bridgeport. This was the second Exemplification using the new script and the honoree of the exemplification was Sir Knight Sergio Toni.

    The primary reason to become a Fourth Degree Knight is to embrace and promote patriotism, actively engage in civic duties, and serve as a visible representation of Catholic citizenship and faith within the community. It’s an opportunity to demonstrate love of country and uphold the values of the Knights of Columbus through service and leadership. 

    Dave is our second 3rd Degree Knight this year to advance to 4th Degree, following Peter Rubsam’s ceremony at St. Patrick’s Cathedral.

    I hope to see more people follow in Dave and Peter’s steps over the coming months.

    Congratulations again Dave!


  • Easter Weekend Activities

    Easter Weekend Activities

    Firstly, I hope you all had a very happy easter and that the resurrection of Christ brought you and your family peace and joy as you rejoiced in the miracle of Easter, surrounded by the love of family, the warmth of friendship, and the blessings of faith.

    I also want to thank all the Knights and our sister Columbiettes who volunteered and participated in the Easter Activities over the weekend. What a fantastic effort to get everything just right, from the cleaning of the Church, the beautiful flowers that were added by the Columbiettes, the washing of the feet, the preparations for the Easter Egg Hunt, the joy on the children’s faces, and the beautiful Easter Vigil Service by Fr. Pawel. I hope you all had a great Easter!


  • Easter Schedule Summary

    Easter Schedule Summary

    Everyone, there is a lot happening as we approach the Easter weekend. We have several Volunteering opportunities that I know our membership will step up for. Please read below and ensure you mark your calendars accordingly:

    • April 18th, Friday, 4:30pm: The Church Cleaning – we will need a lot of volunteers for this to ensure the church is prepared properly for Easter Services
    • April 19th, Saturday, 8:45am: Set up for the Easter Egg Hunt. Student volunteers will be arriving at 9:00am but we will need Knight Volunteers to arrive by 8:45am
    • April 19th, Saturday, 10:00am: Knights will serve Coffee and Donuts
    • April 19th, Saturday, 10:30am: Easter Egg Hunt begins, followed by cleanup which will require volunteers
    • May 4th, Sunday, 9:30am: Set up for Father Pawal’s Installation Mass & celebration – volunteers needed
    • May 4th, Sunday, 11:00am: Installation Mass with the bishop
    • May 4th, Sunday, 12:00pm: Reception, followed by cleanup – volunteers will be needed
    • May 9th, Friday, 7:00pm: Knight at the Playshop. The performance will be “Into The Woods“and the flyer is attached. People can use the code KOC2025 to get a 10% discount when ordering online: https://www.wiltonplayshop.org/. There will be a small gathering reception area in the back prior to the event and we will provide hors d’oeuvre but attendees should BYOB. This will start at 7pm and the show starts at 8pm. This is a relaxing night where most present are Knights – please join us. Its important you purchase your tickets early as they will be sold out quickly


  • Congrats to Peter Rubsam

    Congrats to Peter Rubsam

    Congratulations to Peter Rubsam, one of own from Council 12698, on becoming the latest Sir Knight of the 4th Degree of The Knights of Columbus. Peter was privileged to attend the ceremony at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in NYC marking the 125th anniversary of the first exemplification on February 22nd 1900. Peter was part of a class of over 700; the first exemplification had over 1,100 candidates. The entire ceremonial was overseen by His Eminence Timothy Cardinal Dolan and Supreme Chaplain, His Excellency Archbishop William Lori. They also celebrated a Mass and attended a banquet afterwards.

    The next exemplification in CT is on Sunday, April 6, at the birthplace of our order, St. Mary’s in New Haven. If you wish to be a part of the Patriotic arm of our order, please let us know soon. You’ll have to complete a Form 4 application, email it to Council 12698 for verification at WiltonKnightsOfColumbus@gmail.com before it is sent to Bishop Fenwick Assembly 100. I encourage all of our 3rd Degree Knights to become members of the 4th Degree.

    Congratulations again to Peter in his fantastic accomplishment, and thanks to his wife Jeannie and all the others who were there with him to celebrate.


  • Mass for Installation of New Officers 2024

    Mass for Installation of New Officers 2024

    On Tuesday evening, Fr. Jim DiVasto said Mass at our Lady of Fatima in Wilton to celebrate the installation of new Officers in our Council 12698. Many Knight Members and Families turned out.

    District Deputy Anthony Armentano performed the Installation of Officers after the Mass concluded, installing Mike Healy as Grand Knight, Dave Flynn as Deputy Grand Knight, Brian Rafferty as Treasurer, Peter Rubsam as Recorder, John Danaher as Financial Secretary and Jamie McDowell as 3 Year Trustee. Fr. Jim was also installed as Chaplain and Lecturer.

    Some Officers were not able to attend and were awarded in absentia, including Bob Lenihan as Chancellor and Membership, Rob McCullough as Warden, Scott Douglass as Inside and Outside Guard, Paul Niche as 1 Year Trustee, Peter Slavin as 2 Year Trustee, and Bill McMorris as Advocate.

    We will everyone the best of luck in their roles!